In 1997, a team of researchers led by husband and wife psychologists, Arthur Aron, Ph.D., and Elaine Aron, Ph.D., published a paper in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin about a series of experiments where strangers asked each other sets of questions designed to foster intimacy. The study examined whether the intimacy between two strangers can be accelerated by answering a specific set of 36 personal questions, each intended to become increasingly probing, stimulating closeness, intimacy and ultimately love.
18 years later, Mandy Len Catron cited the study in a widley shared article in the New York Times called "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This." Unsurprisingly, this “scientific approach” to love was catapulted into the public sphere as a result – spawning countless readers to try the questions for themselves.
While the questions are not a magic formula for falling in love, nor do they replace the time needed to build true trust and commitment, they do foster a sense of closeness and can be incredibly enlightening. Try them out on your next date night or intimate dinner party.
By asking and answering these questions honestly and openly, you and your partner can learn more about each other's thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and gain a greater understanding of what makes each other tick. Even if you don't "fall in love" as a result of doing these questions, they can help you to bring you closer together and strengthen your relationship. It's a simple yet effective way to improve the communication and intimacy in your relationship. So, give it a try and see how it can bring you and your partner closer together.
With Remento, it's never been easier to collect your family's stories, including your love story. Simply add these questions to your Remento account. Each week, you'll be invited to record your answer from your favorite device - no downloads required. Then, Remento turns the recordings into written stories, each of which is printed into a hardcover, keepsake book. Read the book, or scan the QR codes within it to hear their voice. Learn more about Remento here.
In 1997, a team of researchers led by husband and wife psychologists, Arthur Aron, Ph.D., and Elaine Aron, Ph.D., published a paper in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin about a series of experiments where strangers asked each other sets of questions designed to foster intimacy. The study examined whether the intimacy between two strangers can be accelerated by answering a specific set of 36 personal questions, each intended to become increasingly probing, stimulating closeness, intimacy and ultimately love.
18 years later, Mandy Len Catron cited the study in a widley shared article in the New York Times called "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This." Unsurprisingly, this “scientific approach” to love was catapulted into the public sphere as a result – spawning countless readers to try the questions for themselves.
While the questions are not a magic formula for falling in love, nor do they replace the time needed to build true trust and commitment, they do foster a sense of closeness and can be incredibly enlightening. Try them out on your next date night or intimate dinner party.
By asking and answering these questions honestly and openly, you and your partner can learn more about each other's thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and gain a greater understanding of what makes each other tick. Even if you don't "fall in love" as a result of doing these questions, they can help you to bring you closer together and strengthen your relationship. It's a simple yet effective way to improve the communication and intimacy in your relationship. So, give it a try and see how it can bring you and your partner closer together.
With Remento, it's never been easier to collect your family's stories, including your love story. Simply add these questions to your Remento account. Each week, you'll be invited to record your answer from your favorite device - no downloads required. Then, Remento turns the recordings into written stories, each of which is printed into a hardcover, keepsake book. Read the book, or scan the QR codes within it to hear their voice. Learn more about Remento here.
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